many people suggest that they should make friends who are of great benefit to their studies, so they will help each other and make greater progress with their studies. some believe that they should have friends related to their life. whenever they have difficulty dealing with problems in terms of life, they can help rid themselves of the problems. in addition, others agree that they should have some friends who can listen to them attentively and share their bitterness and joy.

what i want to stress is that each of us should have a true friend. to make friends, we should try to remember the names of the people we contact and learn not to judge people by their appearances. besides, we need to be friendly and care about them. when disagreement does occur, it's wise of us to talk it over to others. in brief, making true friends can really enable us to improve ourselves.

根与叶的关系作文篇2

真好！朋友送我一对珍珠鸟。放在一个简易的竹条编成的笼子里，笼内还有一卷干草，那是小鸟舒适又温暖的巢。

有人说，这是一种怕人的鸟。

我把它挂在窗前。那儿还有一盆异常茂盛的法国吊兰，我便用吊兰长长的、串生着小绿叶的垂蔓蒙盖在鸟笼上，它们就像躲进深幽的丛林一样安全，从中传出的笛儿般又细又亮的叫声，也就格外轻松自在了。

阳光从窗外射入，透过这里，吊兰那些无数指甲状的小叶，一半成了黑影，一半被照透，如同碧玉，斑斑驳驳，生意葱茏。小鸟的影子就在这中间隐约闪动，看不完整，有时连笼子也看不出，却见它们可爱的鲜红小嘴儿从绿叶中伸出来。

我很少扒开叶蔓瞧它们，它们便渐渐敢伸出小脑袋瞅瞅我。我们就这样一点点熟悉了。

三个月后，那一团愈发繁茂的绿蔓里边，发出一种尖细又娇嫩的鸣叫。我猜到，是它们有了雏儿。我呢?决不掀开叶片往里看，连添食加水时也不睁大好奇的眼去惊动它们。过不多久，忽然有一个小脑袋从叶间探出来。更小哟，雏儿！正是这个小家伙！

它小，就能轻易地由疏格的笼子钻出身。瞧，多么像它的母亲，红嘴红脚，灰蓝色的毛，只是后背还没有生出珍珠似的圆圆的白点。它好肥，整个身子好像一个蓬松的球儿。

起先，这小家伙只在笼子四周活动，随后就在屋里飞来飞去。一会儿落在柜顶上；一会儿神气十足地站在书架上，啄着书背上那些大文豪的名字；一会儿把灯绳撞得来回摇动，跟着跳到画框上去了。只要大鸟在笼里生气地叫一声，它立即飞回笼里去。

我不管它。这样久了，打开窗子，它最多只在窗框上站一会儿，决不飞出去。

渐渐它胆子大了，就落在我书桌上。

它先是离我较远，见我不去伤害它，便一点点挨近，然后蹦到我的杯子上，俯下头来喝茶，再偏过脸瞧瞧我的反应。我只是微微一笑，依旧写东西，它就放开胆子跑到稿纸上，绕着我的笔尖蹦来蹦去，跳动的小红爪子踏在纸上发出嚓嚓的响声。

我不动声色地写，默默享受着这小家伙亲近的情意。这样，它完全放心了，索性用那涂了蜡似的、角质的小红嘴，嗒嗒啄着我颤动的笔尖。我用手抚一抚它细腻的绒毛，它也不怕，反而友好地啄两下我的手指。

白天，它这样淘气地陪伴我。天色入暮，它就在父母的再三呼唤声中，飞向笼子，扭动滚圆的身子，挤开那些绿叶钻进去。

有一天，我伏案写作时，它居然落到我的肩上。我手中的笔不觉停了，生怕惊跑它。待一会儿，扭头看，这小家伙竟趴在我的肩头睡着了，银灰色的眼睑盖住眸子，小红脚刚好被胸脯上长长的绒毛盖住。我轻轻抬一抬肩，它没醒，睡得好熟！还呷呷嘴，难道在做梦？

我笔尖一动，流泻下一时的感受：信赖，往往创造出美好的境界。

根与叶的关系作文篇3

在现实生活中，“没关系”是一种回应他人道歉的方式，它是我们队他人宽恕和包容的象征，也是我们应该学会的处世态度。

安东尼。得说：“世界上存在两种狗，大狗和小狗，小狗不因为大狗的存在而怨愤，它们应该运用上帝给的声音吼叫。”在生物范畴内，大狗和小狗都是同一物种，它们有地理隔离却没有生殖隔离，是可以进行基因交流的，但在生物进化史中，“适者生存，不适着淘汰”这句话贯穿其中。导致同一物种为了生存而斗争，自相残杀，其实小狗用一颗包容的心去看待大狗都是同一物种，为何要互相 ?包容本就是一人对另一人的妥协。

王国维说：“古之成大事者，必先经历三大境界，一是独上高楼，望尽天涯路”，而是“衣带渐宽终不悔，为依悄得人憔悴”，三是“众里寻他千百度，蓦然回首，那人却在灯火阑珊处”。我认为古之大成大事者，还应该有一颗包容的心及淡然的处世态度。而周瑜便是一个典型的反面教材，他生性高傲，眼里容不得他人，爱对事物斤斤计较，可诸葛亮出现了，他简直就是周瑜的克星，草船借箭，让周瑜损失了不少物力。更甚的是，周瑜在后来竟被活活气死了，他在临死前说道：“既生瑜何生亮!”从上面这个事例便可看出周瑜没有一颗包容的心，他嫉妒比自己好的人，他咽不下折扣恶气，最后被活活气死。

包容，本就是一人对另一人的释然，是觉得不开心，那是你还忘了原谅自己。我们本就是世界上旋生旋灭的存在，从无中来，又要到无中去，何必为了他人去坏了自己的心情，不如用一颗包容的心来笑对人生。席慕蓉说：“青春是一条河，我们都是那个渡河的人，河的左岸是铭记，我们乘着船穿梭在左岸和右岸之间，忘记该忘记的，铭记该铭记的。”我们应该忘记往昔的痛苦，铭记今日的快乐。

包容，本就是一人对另一人的谅解。

苦难考验灵魂和软弱，软弱的灵魂在寻常的苦难中一蹶不振。成功考验灵魂的高贵和卑劣，卑劣的灵魂在表面的坚持不懈，朝着自己的目标去奋斗，不要向困难低头，不要向挫折弯腰，当我们在追求成功路上行走着，假如不幸摔跤，不要灰心，对自己说一句：“没关系”，继续上路。去追寻自己心中的那个小太阳，用一颗乐观淡然的心去直面生活。

我们本就是宇宙一颗渺小的存在，从无中来，又到无中去，愿我们有一颗包容的心，愿我们在遇到困难时能对自己说一句“没关系”，愿我们可以带着最微薄的行李去笑对人生!

根与叶的关系作文篇4

班上一些成绩好的同学，有的总是形单影只，而一些成绩一般的同学，却总是簇拥着一群群“追随者”。班干部选举了，尽管成绩好的同学很优秀，得到的票数却屈指可数，相反，成绩一般的某些同学，得票数却遥遥领先。这靠的是什么?靠的就是人际关系。

朋友之间，亲戚之间，师生之间，邻居之间友好往来......这些都是人际关系。人际关系是最难处理，却是最不可避免的一种关系，是一门高深的学问。

刘备是处理人际关系的优秀典范。他自身，论武功，他比不过张飞和关羽;论智慧，他岂能胜过神机妙算的诸葛亮?不过，他有一点谁也难比的本事：善于建立良好的人际关系。刘备建立与张飞和关羽的关系，用的是“义”，桃园结义，互相承诺，互相保证，由此建立一种结盟关系。刘备请诸葛亮三顾茅庐，用的是“情”，感动了诸葛亮，使诸葛亮鞠躬尽瘁，死而后已。“刘备摔孩子——”，刘备为了让赵云死心塌地地跟随自己，特地用了“摔孩子”这种特殊手段，使赵云备受感动，感激不尽。正是因为种.种的方法，刘备建立起了一种较为完美的人际关系，并且建立了蜀国。

好的人际关系建立，首先需要的是自身品行高洁，为别人树立榜样。要尊重他人，乐于付出。别人就是你的镜子，你对他笑他就笑，你用真诚的态度去对他，他也会用真诚的态度来回报你。相反，如果你见到他，不和他打招呼，不用正眼看他，那么过几天，你会发现，他对你的态度也会渐渐冷淡下来。所以，对人尊重、态度友好是建立良好人际关系最关键的一步，走好了这一步，才会有人为你的友善而感动，才会有人来敬佩你，才会有人主动来做你的朋友。

人际关系，是人间的一门学问，要研究与重视。

根与叶的关系作文篇5

俗话说，人无完人。我们每个人在日常生活中都不可避免地会遇到这样或那样的情况。当出现意见分歧、利益冲突时，往往会斤斤计较，互相争论，导致矛盾。我们必须学会善待他人。

法国作家雨果曾说:世界上最辽阔的是海洋，天空比海洋宽，人的心灵比天空宽。人际交往；没有宽容就没有友谊，没有宽容就没有善良。宽容是一种美德，是一种修养，是衡量一个人水平的标准。当别人冒犯你，当别人践踏你的尊严时，我们应该坚持原则，尽最大努力伸出橄榄枝。以牙还牙的方式做事是不可取的。那只会把你引向死胡同，进退两难。为什么不握手言和，退一步？

能善待他人的胸怀是宽广的，要以真诚、大度、宽广的胸怀对待他人。

当阿姆斯特朗登上月球时，他说我个人迈出了一小步，但人类迈出了一大步。是家喻户晓，但也有一个叫奥尔德林的人一起登上了月球。虽然对我们来说很陌生，但也让我们佩服。在庆祝登月成功的新闻发布会上，记者突然问了奥尔德林一个很尖锐的问题:作为同事，阿姆斯特朗成为了第一个登月的人。有没有觉得有点遗憾？现场轻松的气氛一下子凝固了。在大家尴尬的注视下，奥尔德林幽默地回答:各位，别忘了，我是第一个走出太空舱回到地球的！他环顾四周，笑着说，所以我是第一个从另一个星球来到地球的人。大家在笑声中给了他最热烈的掌声。从他的话中，我们可以深刻理解善待他人的含义。聪明的人知道如何善待他人。他不会抓住对方的错误不放。他将以自己的方式走出一个没有结果的故事。也许几十年后，人们已经忘记了奥尔德林，但却忘不了他那种让别人开心，真诚分享朋友快乐的美德。

有一次，颜回看到一个卖书的和一个买布的吵架。买布的人说:“3813，为什么收我二十四块钱？”颜回上前劝架道:“是3824。你错了！”别争论了。买布的人指着严丰惠的鼻子说:你是谁？我只听孔子的。让他来评判吧。颜回问:错了怎么办？买布的人说，我把头给你。如果你错了呢？颜回说:我的帽子丢给你了。他们找到了孔子。孔子问及情况，朝颜回一笑，说:三月八日是十三。颜回，你输了。把你的帽子给别人。颜回思想；3824对吗？老师一定是老糊涂了。他不得不把帽子给买衣服的人。那人拿起帽子，高兴地离开了。这时孔子告诉颜回:说你丢了，就丢一顶帽子，说他丢了，那是人命！你说帽子重要还是生命重要？颜回跪在孔子面前说:“老师重义轻是非，学生极其惭愧！”就像我们说的，宽容让事情变得简单，苛刻让事情变得复杂。其实在生活中，人与人之间难免会发生碰撞。摩擦只看你怎么处理。更宽容，更豁达的感情。更多的自我批评，更多的自我牺牲，也许已经救了一条命。

有一个智者和一个朋友一起旅行。智者在穿越一个山谷的时候不小心滑倒了，朋友们想尽办法把他拖住，不让他被埋在谷底。智者得救后，坚持把这件事刻在石头上。他朋友问:真的有必要这样做吗？智者说，当然。于是，他在石头上写道:某年某月某日，路过某谷时，朋友救了我一命。雕刻完成后，他们继续他们的旅程。有一天，在海边，两个人因为一件事吵架，朋友生气了，打了智者一巴掌。聪明人捂着发烧的脸说，我一定要把这个写下来！他朋友说:“你爱怎么记就怎么记，我不怕！智者于是找了根棍子，在退潮后的沙滩上写道:某年某月某日，在某个沙滩上，朋友打了我一巴掌。朋友看完之后莫名其妙的问他:为什么不刻在石头上？智者笑着说:“我对石头说的话是我不敢忘记的。我想让斯通帮我记住它。“我告诉海滩的事恐怕我不会忘记。我想让海滩为我忘记它。智者以宽广的胸怀挽救了友谊。

只有善待他人，才能让自己融入人群，获得友谊、信任、理解和支持；只有善待他人，才能感到快乐，才能踏入充满机遇的境界，才能走向充满希望的未来。让我们秉承真诚大方的做人之道，热情勇敢的与人相处。

根与叶的关系作文篇6

communication is just as basic as food and drink.

while some people sail ahead using their impeccable communication skills, others struggle to be understood. heresquo;s how you can improve your communication skills

1. understand the nuances of communication

communication has long transcended verbalexchanges to become an effective way of connecting with people. communication leaves ample scopefor misinterpretation, leaving greater chunks of the intended meaning lost in translation. understanding such subtlenuances brings about greater awareness in self-improvement.

2. say whatsquo;s on your mind

when it comes to conveying the desired message, most people shy away from speaking their mind mostly because they are bogged down by social expectations. they keep personal opinions withdrawn from the ensuing conversation. the prime purpose of being able to communicate effectively is to be able to express your personal opinions in the given matter

3. retain eye contact

every conversationalist believes that the perfect way to engage audiences is to maintain eye contact with them. looking at people in the eye tends to draw their wavering attentions to the conversation at hand. if you want to improve your communication skills remember to engage your audiences by directly looking at them. eye contact ties the speaker to the masses with an invisible tether and forces them to pay attention. without eye contact verbal communication is rendered completely futile

4. mind your body language

the body does not need a verbal language to express itself. it can communicate via mannerisms, expressions and physical conduct. when it comes to effective communication skills, excellent verbal content is coupled with sound physical expression to render an engaging effect on the audiences. animated gestures, lively expressions and physical mannerisms are excellent ways of conveying a given idea. a deadpan expression only conveys a lacklustre attitude and boredom, whereas an animated front is more engaging to witness. if you want to improve your communication skills, you should start observing others while they speak. talk to yourself and check your body language in the mirror to ascertainyour flaws and improve upon them.

5. be a good listener

communication is hardly a one-way process. listening is as important as speaking. in fact, most communication experts believe that an ideal communicator tends to listen more than speak. while it is heartening to be able to alleviate interpersonal troubles by talking it out, sometimes listening alone does the trick. not only does it make the communicating experience richer but also makes you more sympathetic(有同情心的) to the other person

6. clear enunciation

some people tend to draw their syllabl，out making their speech complete incomprehensible to the listener. while the idea of communication is extremely important, one shouldnsquo;t treat the medium of communication lightly crisp enunciation adds to effective delivery 。not only do these require a thorough understanding of the spoken word, but also require much work on improving speech defects.

7. crisp pronunciation

when it comes to addressing an audience, a communicator must have an impeccable

pronunciation to have the desired effect. very often, bad pronunciation has made laughing stocks out of the most able speakers. the method by which the medium carries the message tends to shape the overall meaning accordingly .if your pronunciation needs improvement, donsquo;t be shy asking for help. one should correct their pronunciation in order to maintain their effectiveness as good communicators

8. enhance your vocabulary

thorough knowledge of the medium involves equipping your vocabulary with new words. many-a-times people have ended up using high-sounding words inappropriatelyonly to face public embarrassment. building a fortress without a strong foundation will only result in eventual failure. learning new words is an invaluable addition to your communication skills. not only does it increase your verbal prowess, it also helps you communicate better. coherent language is an assured winner in registering the intended meaning and engaging audiences effectively.

9. follow other efficient communicators

human beings are excellent emulators(竞争者) we live our lives emulating others and learn new things in the process. when it comes to picking up ideas for improving onesquo;s communication skills, the best approach is to learn from others. it is only by observing others can you hope to pick up some helpful pointers for yourself. observing other speakers will help inculcate their good points into your repertoire(演奏节目) .seek the company of good communicators and observe them closely. emulate their speaking styles and mannerisms. with time, not only will you be able to communicate like them, but you will be able to develop your own distinctive style

10. study from self-help books

self-help books are excellent guides to improving any given skill. effective communicators enclose their transforming experiences in such books to help less fortunate people gain benefits of better speech. with a host of titles to choose from, one can resort to emulating tips mentioned in these books to help make their communication skills better. the step-by-step instructions given in these books lend an extensive insight into the idea of communication to help improve them in no time

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